no news is no news

Well we still haven't heard from the BM and neither has the agency. J did have quite the lengthy discussion with the agency this morning. They really helped put things into perspective. This is their 5th pregnancy - and our first baby. It is only natural that we would want to know every last detail but to them (the birth parents), it is no big deal. They believe that she did go to the doctor she just didn't check in and call with details. They think that in her mind if she went to the doctor and everything was ok, why would she call and check in. I guess it kinda makes sense to me. The agency reassured Jay that they still feel like this is a really good match and they see NO red flags. That was one of the things they stressed in the seminar that if they saw red flags or doubts, etc, we would be the first to know. We are their "customers" and they, of course, have our best interest at heart. So right now, we just need to relax and try not to worry because no news is nothing more than no news.