Well J & I talked to the agency this morning. They are very very frustrated with the birth family. They are not holding up to their end of the deal. They are not calling with pregnancy updates - they are not returning phone calls, they only seem to be calling when they need something. The agency is concerned that this may not happen. Right now, the birth family has no place to live and we can't help them. They were supposed to call and check in on Saturday to let the agency know where they are - they did not do that. She is supposed to go to the doctor on Friday. I don't expect to hear anything before then and truthfully, I am not sure we will hear anything then. I think it is important to note that on Friday when they talked to her, she said her intent was to still place this baby with us - she feels like she has no choice.
Unfortuntately, I think we all need to prepare ourselves, that something might happen with this placement, it might not happen at all. If that is the case, they will start showing our profile to birth moms again and we start over. Unless we choose not to.
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